The invention provides a five-core tin (II) compound and a preparation method and an application thereof. A synthetic process of the compound comprises the following steps: under the protection of a nitrogen gas, adding trimethyl silicon-based benzene (phenyl) lithium amide to a reaction vessel, adding ethyl ether for dissolving, in a condition of an acetone bath, adding dimethylaminonitrile, reacting overnight, and adding SnCl2 in the condition of the acetone bath, slowly warming to a room temperature, reacting overnight, stewing, filtering, concentrating filtrate in vacuum, crystalizing in the room temperature, and separating out a colorless crystal, to obtain the five-core tin (II) compound, wherein a mole ratio of the trimethyl silicon-based benzene (phenyl) lithium amide, the dimethylaminonitrile and the SnCl2 is 1:1:1-1.25. The compound can be used as a catalyst, and used for catalyzing a reaction of generating guanidine by aniline and N,N'-diisopropyl carbodiimide addition, andhas better application prospect.