The invention relates to a whitening glaze slurry for high wear-resistant ceramic, and a preparation method thereof. According to the present invention, raw materials and water are mixed and ball milling is performed to obtain the glaze slurry, wherein the raw materials comprise, by weight, 14-20 parts of albite, 13-17 parts of limestone, 14-18 parts of quartz, 8-12 parts of frit, 1-3 parts of soda ash, 0.5-2.5 parts of white feldspar, 4-6 parts of a whitening agent, and 0.5-2.5 parts of a wear-resistant agent, wherein the whitening agent is prepared from 40-60 parts by weight of kaolin, 40-60 parts by weight of titanium dioxide, 1-2 parts by weight of calcium stearate, and 1-3 parts by weight of gamma-chloropropyltrimethoxysilane, and the wear-resistant agent is prepared from 2-4 parts by weight of yttrium oxide, 8-12 parts by weight of hydroxyapatite, 8-18 parts by weight of calcined talc, and 0.2-0.4 part by weight of an aluminum zirconium coupling agent; and the whitening glaze slurry has characteristics of reasonable raw material, simple preparation method, low production cost and good performance, and is worthy of popularizing and applying.