The invention provides a KM silicon carbide abrasive and its preparation method and use method. The abrasive comprises the following components: 5-30 parts of emery particles, 10-20 parts of white lead powder, 1-4 parts of calcium hydrogen phosphate, 20~40 parts of engine oil, 20~30 parts of linseed oil, 2~5 parts of sodium silicate, 32~37.99 parts of silicon carbide. The invention has high processing efficiency; little damage to the hard surface gear body; greatly shortens the running-in time of the newly assembled gear and the gear after repair; it is especially suitable for the point, line and surface grinding processing of the high-precision gear transmission line, and can effectively accelerate the grinding of the gear Meshing, reducing the influence of manufacturing and assembly errors on gear transmission, through online grinding processing, except for center moment deviation, pitting peeling, bearing damage, etc., the grinding process of meshing surface points, lines, and surfaces is fast and simple , easy to operate, easy to grasp, and suitable for popularization, which greatly improves the gear transmission accuracy and ensures the smooth production of new and repaired gears. It also has the advantages of no pollution, no influence on the quality of lubricating oil, greatly reducing the vibration frequency of the gear to the allowable range of the design, and no side effects.