A dewatered sludge solidifying agent, a preparation method and a use method, belonging to the technical field of environmental engineering, the phosphate rock, carbide slag, tailings slag and marble slag in the dewatered sludge solidifying agent are (1-3) by mass percentage: (1 ~3):(1~3):(1~3), the preparation method comprises: washing, drying, crushing and ball milling the phosphate rock, calcium carbide slag, tailings slag and marble slag respectively, and mixing them in proportion uniform. The method of using the dewatered sludge solidifying agent includes: mixing the dewatered sludge and the added dewatered sludge solidifying agent in proportion to achieve solidification. The compressive strength of the cured dewatered sludge can reach 78KPa after 3 days of curing under normal temperature and pressure, and the pH of the leachate is between 5 and 10. The dewatered sludge solidifying agent of the present invention uses solid waste as a raw material, has wide sources of raw materials and low cost, and utilizes the chemical properties of the solid waste itself and the activity excitation between them to realize the solidification and stabilization of the dewatered sludge.