The present invention relates to gemini alkylamine ether succinate sulfonate surfactants as shown in chemical structural formulas I, II, III and IV, wherein R1 and R2 are respectively selected from linear or branched saturated or non-linear C4-C22. Saturated hydrocarbon group, wherein R1, R2 are the same or different; a=1~100, b=1~100, n=1~10, all are integers; M is one or more selected from Li+, Na+, K+, NH4+ kind. Its preparation method is to carry out monoester or diesterization of secondary amine ether, primary amine ether, polyamine ether and maleic anhydride, and then carry out sulfonation to obtain disubalkyl amine ether succinate. According to amine ether alkyl, The addition number of EO and PO and the number of amine ether functional groups are different, which can adjust the performance of the final gemini surfactant from the molecular structure. The preparation method of the invention is simple, easy to operate, and less harmful to the environment.