The invention discloses an active antenna related device, a system and a sending and receiving calibration method, which are used to realize the scalable design of the antenna array, reduce the difficulty of engineering implementation and provide engineering implementation reliability. The active antenna device includes: N active antenna arrays, a main calibration coupling circuit unit, a transceiver calibration unit, a calibration parameter storage unit, and an optical radio communication ROF photoelectric conversion unit, wherein the N is greater than 1; the active antenna array At least including an antenna coupling circuit unit and M antenna elements connected to the antenna coupling circuit unit, where M is greater than 1; the antenna calibration coupling circuit unit of the active antenna array is connected to the main calibration coupling circuit through a calibration channel unit, the main calibration coupling circuit is connected to the transceiver calibration unit, and the transceiver calibration unit and the calibration parameter storage unit are respectively connected to the ROF photoelectric conversion unit.