The invention discloses a device, method and system for resolving request conflicts, belonging to the field of conference systems. Aiming at the problems existing in the prior art that the server role must be introduced outside the device, resulting in complex systems, high costs, and external dependence, the present invention generates identity information locally on the device and follows the device, and updates data with each other in real time. On the basis of some interactive collaboration systems, decentralization is realized. When multiple users in the system initiate a lecture request, the present invention does not need to use the server to judge the timing of the request, but uses the information stored locally in each device to determine the request conflict. Judgment, at the same time, the device can judge the optimal device, which solves the conflict problem of multiple members initiating the lecture request in the traditional interactive collaboration system, and does not require third-party devices to participate in logic and timing judgments, reducing operating costs and system complexity.